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Ultimate Fetish Party

PUSH: Durham's Ultimate Fetish Party returns on April 13th.

All-access tickets have sold out. If you have not gotten a ticket, do not despair! You have two options:

1. Purchase a daytime only ticket for just $20 (note that if you end up purchasing an all-access ticket, we will refund the $20 for the daytime ticket). We have amazing daytime events, including classes, the kinky vendors fair, the Best in Show competition and more!


2. Get ready to purchase one of the "door" tickets, which are all-access tickets that will go on sale at noon on April 13th. These tickets will be on sale online and in person, but here's the catch: there are a limited supply of tickets available (at the last event, these tickets sold out by 12:10), but if you arrive at the door BEFORE noon and are one of the first 25 people to arrive, before the tickets go online (we recommend getting there by 11:45 to play it safe), we will guarantee you an all-access ticket. Door tickets are $55 for fetish wear outfits, $75 for sharp all-black outfits (if you bring cash, you can also save the website fees).

Remember, PUSH is not just a party, but rather it is the largest multipurpose kink/BDSM event in North Carolina.

Here is the schedule of events:

We open at noon with our vendors's fair, which goes from noon to 7:00 PM. Be sure to come during these hours as we have changed vending at PUSH: In order to provide you with more play space, there will be no vendors at night other than our food vendor and the boot black.

Classes and other daytime events will take place from 1:00 PM-6:30 PM. In addition to continuing our popular classes, we have some exciting new classes lined up for you. And the second annual Best in Show Compeition will take place from 5:00-6:30 PM, with the grand finale at the nighttime event, immediately after the performances.

The Kinky Cocktail and Mocktail Meet and Greet will take place from 6:30-9:00 PM. DJ 40oz, PUSH’s resident DJ will set the mood! Please note that we will close the doors between 8:30 and 9:00 PM to finalize our set up for the Ultimate Fetish Party, but those all-access ticket holders who are already inside are welcome to stay…the music will continue, and the bar will be open.

The Ultimate Fetish Party will take place from 9:00 PM-2:00 AM! There, you can enjoy open kink and BDSM play, dancing, socializing, and watching over the entire scene, all throughout the 21,000 square foot warehouse and its many rooms. We have a two-story dungeon and an auditorium for dancing, performances, and more play, including our wild animal play area. We have suspension artists ready to suspend you, and experts in the violet wand ready to shock you! We have several chill lounges for you to hang out, and other rooms for you to play.

We have an amazing lineup of performances, led by our Master of Ceremonies, Sterling Maxwell, that will take place in the following order, beginning at 10:45 PM:

Hysteria Cole


Purrrl Van Dammitt

Sara Bloo

Dustin Reams

The Best in Show Grand Finale! 

All performances will be on the main stage in the auditorium.

Our DJs:

Meet and Greet Cocktail and Mocktail Party: 6:30-9:00 PM-DJ 40oz.

Auditorium Main Stage:

9:00-10:45 PM-DJ Spider

10:45 PM-12:00 AM-Performances

12:00-2:00 AM-DJ Gemynii



9:00-10:45 PM-softer

10:45 PM-12:30 AM-SYPHA

12:30 AM-2 AM-Ari Atari

PUSH is a full FETISH artistic performance party with rope suspension, impact play, electricity, shibari and more!

You can play, you can watch, you can dance! And you can chill on the porch, relax in the many lounge areas, and have many intense experiences.

*Bring your toys.
*Bring your friends.
*Enthusiastic consent is sexy. Never touch anybody without permission, or you will not stay at PUSH. Consent for all things is mandatory.
*Be ready to play, dance, and/or watch. We have multiple play stations including crosses, benches, cages, and violet wands.
*Have fun.

18 and over to get in the door.

No admission in street or casual wear

Fetish Attire includes but is not limited to: latex, leather, rubber, pvc, rope, chain mail, drag, puppy, kilt, cosplay, steampunk, victorian, goth, uniform, burlesque, corset, formal, pin-up, burner beautiful, furries, bigs and littles, pony-girls, pony-boys and more . . . be kinky, be creative, be sexy! This is also a safe environment in which you can experiment with gender play. Cross dressing and drag are always welcome.

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